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Commingling: How Mixing Assets Can Change Everything in a Florida Divorce

May 23, 2025

By Michael P. Sampson

Sampson Collaborative Law

Cream being poured into black coffee commingling

You saved money before getting married. You fell in love and tied the knot without a prenup. Now, your marriage is falling apart. You’re thinking about divorce and discover that your savings might be split. Why? You mixed your pre-marriage money with money earned during the marriage.

In Florida, this mixing—called commingling—can turn your separate property into shared property. It can change how your assets are divided in a divorce.

Pour cream (the money earned during marriage) into a cup of steaming black coffee (your premarital savings). The now creamy coffee has changed. Irreversibly. Once mixed, the coffee changes forever. In a divorce, commingled assets work the same way.

This guide explains commingling, how it affects your assets, and ways to keep your separate property safe.

What Are Marital and Nonmarital Assets in Florida?

In a Florida divorce, assets are split into two types:

  • Marital Assets: Accounts and assets acquired during the marriage, the enhancement in value and appreciation in nonmarital assets from either spouse’s efforts during the marriage or from the expenditure of marital funds or marital assets, or gifts between spouses. Section 61.075(6)(a), Florida Statutes. Marital assets include those bought with your income (your paycheck) or a house bought with money earned while married. For example, in Distefano v. Distefano, 253 So. 3d 1178 (Fla. 2d DCA 2018), a wife’s depositing paychecks into checking and savings accounts she had funded with premarital funds, from selling a home she bought before the marriage, made the account marital.
  • Nonmarital Assets: Accounts and assets you owned before marriage, assets exchanged for them, or assets inherited during marriage, or acquired by a will or gift from someone other than your spouse, if kept separate. Section 61.075(6)(b), Florida Statutes. Street v. Street, 303 So. 2d 1253 (Fla. 2d DCA 2020) said bank accounts opened before marriage, with no money added during marriage, stay separate. Stocks you bought before marriage also stay separate if they don’t grow with shared effort. In Rivera v. Rivera, Case No. 3D22-1914 (Fla. 3d DCA 2023), a house the husband inherited from his grandmother stayed separate because the wife wasn’t on the deed, never lived in the house, didn’t contribute to its maintenance, and no marital funds went to pay down the mortgage.

Timing Matters

Unless you have a written agreement that says otherwise, asset status is determined on the date of filing for divorce, not on the date of separation (Yon v. Yon, 286 So. 3d 322, (Fla. 1st DCA 2019)); section 61.075(7), Florida Statutes. So, if you separate but don’t file for years, changes in asset status during that gap count. 

Valuing assets is a different matter from identifying them as nonmarital or marital.

Courts may choose valuation dates for an asset other than the date of filing, however, when equity and evidence warrant. Section 61.075(7), Florida Statutes. Where the increase in value of a property or continued ownership of property is solely due to the work or efforts of the owner spouse, use of the separation date is mandated. Norwood v. Anapol-Norwood, 931 So. 2d 951 (Fla. 3d DCA 2006)Silva v. Claffey, Case No. 4D2024-0269 (Fla. 4th DCA Feb 05, 2025). Cf. Frazier v. Dodd, Case No. 5D2022-2478 (Fla. 5th DCA Mar 21, 2025)

Knowing what counts as separate property is the first step to protect your money, especially inheritances or pre-marriage savings.

Commingling: When Nonmarital Assets Become Marital

Commingling happens when you mix separate assets with marital ones. This makes the separate part lose its identity. You can’t unmix cream from coffee. In Florida, this mixing makes the asset shared, and the court can divide it as a marital asset. Dravis v. Dravis, 170 So. 3d 849 (Fla. 2d DCA 2015).

Real-Life Examples: Depositing your paycheck into a pre-marriage account (Distefano v. Distefano, 253 So. 3d 1178 (Fla. 2d DCA 2018)) or moving separate funds into a joint account for shared expenses (Knecht v. Palmer, 252 So. 3d 842 (Fla. 5th DCA 2018)) causes commingling. In Sturms v. Sturms, 226 So. 3d 1004 (Fla. 1st DCA 2017)), money from selling drilling rights owned by the husband’s premarital business became marital when mixed with business funds earned during the marriage.

Blending marital funds with separate funds can jeopardize their nonmarital character.

Did You Unintentionally Give Your Spouse Half Your Separate Assets?

Commingling assets doesn’t just make them marital – it can also create a legal presumption you meant to give half to your spouse.

Presumption of Gift:  Mixing separate funds with funds in a joint account shows you intended a give half to your spouse. Link v. Link, 897 So. 2d 533 (Fla. 5th DCA 2005)Spielberger v. Spielberger, 712 So. 2d 835, 1998). In Link v. Link, a wife’s funds from life insurance proceeds deposited into a joint account were presumed a gift, and she couldn’t prove otherwise.

Proving It Wasn’t a Gift: You must prove you intended no gift, which is hard once money gets mixed. Woodard v. Woodard, 634 So. 2d 782 (Fla. 5th DCA 1994).

No Mixing, No Gift: If you keep funds separate, the court won’t presume a gift. Your spouse must prove you meant to share the funds. Grieco v. Grieco, 917 So. 2d 1052 (Fla. 2d DCA 2006). In Rogers v. Rogers, 351 So. 3d 1230 (Fla. 2d DCA 2022), the court saw no proof a joint account was just for convenience, so the trust money was considered a gift, making a boat purchased with such money marital.

Joint accounts are risky. Keep separate funds in your own account to avoid sharing them by mistake.

Nonmarital Assets That Stay Separate

Some assets can stay separate if you’re careful. Not all assets are vulnerable to commingling.

Accounts Kept Separate:

Accounts funded only with separate funds, even if opened during marriage, stay separate. Street v. Street, 303 So. 2d 1253 (Fla. 2d DCA 2020).

Stocks and Investments:

Stocks or investments you had before marriage stay separate unless commingled or they grow with marital contributions or effort. Farrior v. Farrior, 736 So. 2d 1177 (Fla. 1999)Abdnour v. Abdnour, 19 So. 3d 357 (Fla. 2d DCA 2009)

Inherited Assets and Proceeds:

Assets you inherit, including money from selling those assets, stay separate if you don’t commingle them. Rivera v. Rivera, Case No. 3D22-1914 (Fla. 3d DCA 2023). In Rivera, money from selling an inherited house, used to buy a home for the husband’s mother and a car, stayed separate because he hadn’t commingled the proceeds with marital funds.  

Passive Appreciation:

Appreciation of nonmarital assets remains nonmarital unless marital efforts or funds enhance the value. Doerr v. Doerr, 751 So. 2d 154 (Fla. 2d DCA 2000). However, Knecht v. Palmer, 252 So. 3d 842 (Fla. 5th DCA 2018) found that appreciation of a nonmarital home became marital due to commingled funds used for remodeling, though the court made an unequal distribution to adjust to achieve equity.

Houses, inheritances, and some investments can stay separate, but don’t mix them with shared funds.
Mansion under cloudy sky. Free Calculator Growth in Marital Home.

For a calculator of marital component of appreciation in nonmarital property useful as a tool in collaborative divorce, try out the Sampson Collaborative Law Calculator for Marital Appreciation in Nonmarital Real Property.

For a calculator of the marital component of appreciation in nonmarital accounts, try the Sampson Collaborative Law Premarital Account Calculator.

Proving Your Nonmarital Asset Is Separate

Claiming an asset is your separate, nonmarital asset isn’t enough—you need proof. Commingling makes this harder.

Your Job: Prove the Asset Stayed Separate!

You must show clear proof, like bank statements or your testimony. Street v. Street, 303 So. 2d 1253 (Fla. 2d DCA 2020)White v. White, 965 So. 2d 164 (Fla. 5th DCA 2007). In White, a husband admitted to commingling his inheritance with marital funds, which sank his claim the inheritance was nonmarital.

Commingling Makes Proof Tough, But Not Impossible.

Once separate and shared funds mix, tracing the separate part is almost impossible. (Belmont v. Belmont, 761 So. 2d 406 (Fla. 2d DCA 2000)Dravis v. Dravis, 170 So. 3d 849 (Fla. 2d DCA 2015)Pfrengle v. Pfrengle, 976 So. 2d 1134 (Fla. 2d DCA 2008) showed not keeping separate funds apart made all the money marital.

Still, properties purchased during the marriage with proceeds from the sale of nonmarital property are nonmarital to the extent their purchase prices were paid with proceeds traceable to sale of the nonmarital property. Steiner v. Steiner, 746 So.2d 1149, 1151 (Fla. 2d DCA 1999); Savard, Susan W., The Commingling of Nonmarital and Marital Funds: Untangling the Changing Character of Assets in Equitable Distribution, Florida Bar Journal, 89, no. 7 (2015).

Standard of Review

A trial judge may characterize an asset as marital or non-marital. But an appellate court asked to review such a decision – a determination of law about the character of the asset – reviews it with a fresh eye. That fresh new look is known as de novo review. Dravis v. Dravis, 170 So. 3d 849, 852 (Fla. 2d DCA 2015).

In contrast, when a spouse asks an appellate court to review findings about facts the trial judge relied on, to decide if, under Florida law, the asset is marital or nonmarital, the court reviews the findings for competent, substantial evidenceTradler v. Tradler, 100 So. 3d 735 (Fla. 2d DCA 2012). The appeals court will review the trial judge’s decisions about valuing and distributing marital assets and liabilities for abuse of discretion. Bogard v. Bogard, 490 So. 2d 43 (Fla. 1986) (citing Canakaris v. Canakaris, 382 So. 2d 1197 (Fla. 1980)); Marconi v. Erturk, 293 So. 3d 19 (Fla. 4th DCA 2020).

Support Your Claims With Solid Evidence!

Courts look carefully at the character of an asset as separate or marital, but they need solid proof when a spouse claims an asset is — and stayed — separate. Rogers v. Rogers, 351 So. 3d 1230 (Fla. 2d DCA 2022)Rennert v. Rennert, 307 So. 3d 1021 (Fla. 2d DCA 2020). For example, in Rivera v. Rivera, Case No. 3D22-1914 (Fla. 3d DCA 2023), a husband proved inherited money was separate by showing no commingling; no documentary or testimony from the wife showed otherwise.

Keep separate funds and assets separate. Keep detailed, clear records.

Protect Your Nonmarital Assets.

Protect your separate assets by avoiding commingling. Some practical strategies:

  • Keep Your Own Account: Keep separate funds in an account just in your name (Grieco v. Grieco).
  • Avoid Joint Accounts: Mixing separate money with joint funds risks commingling and gift presumptions (Link v. LinkRogers v. Rogers).
  • Document Transactions: Keep clear records to show the source of funds for purchases or investments (Street v. StreetRivera v. Rivera).
  • Spend Separate Money Directly: Use only separate funds to buy things without mixing them (Yon v. Yon warns that a small marital deposit can change everything).
  • Prenuptial and Postnuptial Agreements: Use a prenup or postnup to say which assets stay separate, even if they get mixed.
  • Collaborative Divorce: Instead of fighting in court, think about collaborative divorce – a team divorce process. Collaborative divorce lets you and your spouse work together to make a deal that respects both separate and shared contributions. 

Can A Judge Adjust for Commingling?

Florida courts usually split shared assets evenly, but they can adjust if there’s a good reason (Florida Statutes, Section 61.075).

Commingling makes it harder to get an unequal distribution of marital assets. To make separate assets subject to equitable distribution as marital assets, judges must follow proof, not do so to punish a spouse.

Conclusion

Mixing assets can change how they’re split in a Florida divorce, turning separate property into shared property, especially with money. Cases like Yon v. YonRogers v. RogersRivera v. Rivera, and Rennert v. Rennert show the risks of mixing, the need to prove what’s separate, and exceptions for houses and inheritances.

To protect your assets, talk with a family law attorney, keep detailed records, consider legal agreements to avoid commingling pitfalls, and consider collaborative divorce.


FAQs: Commingling in Florida Divorce

What happens if I deposit my paycheck into my pre-marriage account?

That likely makes the whole account shared. In Distefano v. Distefano (2018), a wife’s paycheck turned her account into a shared asset because she deposited it there. Like cream and coffee, money mixes easily, so it loses its separate character.

Can inherited property or its proceeds become marital without commingling?

No. Not unless the spouse who inherited it gives some or all of it to the other spouse. In Rivera v. Rivera, money from selling an inherited house stayed separate because it wasn’t mixed with shared funds, even after being used to buy other things.

How do I prove an asset is separate in court?

Show proof like bank statements or your testimony that no separate money was mixed in with marital funds (Street v. Street). Admitting to commingling can torpedo your case (White v. White). Or, rather than going to court, consider collaborative divorce to work out a creative settlement.

Does paying a mortgage on a separate property with marital money make the property marital?

No, not the property itself. But the appreciation may become marital. Rennert v. Rennert held the real property retains its nonmarital status, though marital contributions can affect appreciation. See also section 61.075(6)(a), Florida Statutes. 

What if I put separate money in a joint account to pay bills?

That usually makes the money shared. In Rogers v. Rogers (2022), separate trust money deposited in a marital account to pay bills made the account marital.

Can I keep stocks I owned before marriage separate?

Yes, if you don’t mix them with shared funds or if neither you nor your spouse substantially manages the funds to increase the stock value. Farrior v. Farrior (1999) said a wife’s Coca Cola stock she brought into the marriage stayed separate.

What happens if I mix a small amount of shared money with my separate funds?

Even a small mix can make everything shared. In Yon v. Yon (2019), when the couple was separated but right before the wife filed for divorce, the husband’s separate business wired $250,000 from a liquidation of his interest in the business into a joint account. He wired the same amount from the joint account to his revocable trust’s separate investment account initially funded with over $5 million. The commingling with marital funds and later wire of commingled funds into the investment account – approximately 5% of its starting value – caused the entire account to become marital.

Can the court assume I gave half my separate money to my spouse?

Yes, if you mix the funds in with marital funds, the court may apply a legal presumption that you meant to give your spouse half of the funds, as in Link v. Link (2005). You’d need to prove you didn’t mean to give it away, which is hard after commingling.

Does the date I separate matter for deciding what’s separate or shared?

No. When there is no written agreement providing a different date for identifying marital property to split, the court looks at the date of filing for divorce, not the date you separate (Yon v. Yon, 2019). If you wait years to file, changes during that time can affect the assets to be shared.


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